WHAT THE POINT OF TRUE LESBIANS DATING STUDS?

I'm im lesbian and im feminine and i truly do not see the point in dating mannish women (studs) i truly ad not attracted to them in any way shape or form i look and them and think aww she would make a beautiful woman if she took of those ridiculous clothes or she looks like a six year old in her older brother clothes? i don't get it why not just go out and date men? by dressing this way all they are proving is that women need men ao they compensate by dressing in that manner? and dont use they men and tomboy excuse because that's a whole nother thing men like tom boyish girls that were booty shorts and always have the latest sneakers not tom boys with dreads and a 5 oclock shadow and who's extra butch. I just don't get it when i say i love women i men WOMEN not a women that strives to be a man. any opinions? (and im sorry if im being a little harsh that truly isn't my angle i'm not here to offend anyone )